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eroticbelonging

Come home to your temple

Sit in your pelvic throne

Become
your own body's keeper

Intimacy, pleasure, and eroticism are powerful expressions of the human experience.

They go beyond the brain, into the mystery and magic of life. 

But growing up on the Disney romance myth and living within interlocking
systems of oppression

tells us
our pelvic temples

should be used for something other than our own pleasure.

It's time to break the spell

unlearn this toxic programming

and cultivate our erotic belonging

Welcome!

I'm Jade, an erotic ally with earthly devotion and creative explosion, moving to the pulse of justice rising. A certified Somatic Sex Educator, I'm based out of Portland, Oregon on Clackamas land. 

Erotic Belonging Offerings

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Dating & Relationship
Coaching
Ongoing support for the ups and downs of seeking or deepening meaningful connection
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Gendering Support
Exploring un-gendering, re-gendering, what is gender for, and body rituals for tender times
Night Scene
Pleasure Mentorship
Pleasure mapping, exploring the erotic equation, rewiring the body for pleasure, trauma stewardship.
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Relational Intimacy Toolkit
Discerning closeness, gateways to intimacy, knowing what you want, paradox of sovereignty practices
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Boundary & Consent Skillbuilding
Understanding the language of the body, opening the voice, building muscle memory for sharing honestly
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Body Sovereignty &
Self-Regulation
Nervous system support, inner landscape attunement, creativity practices

$500 Packages

Choose a series of sessions focused on one of these topics:

Erotic Detective

What's your flavor of feeling and moving towards pleasure? Everyone's erotic nature is entirely unique, and sometimes buried deep beneath cultural programming. Skillfully uncover hidden parts and bolster erotic freedom as it naturally expresses through you. Held in a container of curiosity, playfulness and care.

Dating Ally

Do you dread dating apps and awkward first dates? Finding connection can be challenging for all of us, especially if we have a history of merging too quickly or keeping people at a distance. This series offers tangible practices to clarify what you're looking for and role-play opportunities to embody receptive confidence. 

Pleasure Gendering

Creatively unravel the impacts of cis-normativity and uplift body-based discoveries of what feels good in your gendering. How does gender liberation connect to a larger call for decolonization? Explorations around body parts, attractions, and what's inside ready to come out to play. Trauma-responsive and pleasure-centered.

What's Included:

  • A 30 minute phone call to connect intentions and ask questions

  • Three 90 minute sessions

  • Home practices to support your learning and integration

  • Light text support between sessions if desired

  • Written support materials as needed

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Testimonial

My work with Jade has been simultaneously gentle and deeply transformational. I came to them for help with stepping into my erotic power, and in just a few sessions, Jade has sheparded me toward a more authentic version of myself. Their steady loving presence provides the safe container to do the fierce work of moving through my shadow and stepping more fully into my pleasure and power.

 

- I.W.

Somatic Sex Education is not psychotherapy. I am not a physician, psychiatrist, psychologist,
licensed social worker or licensed marriage and family therapist, and I do not offer therapy,
psychotherapy or medical advice.

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